So here is my news

I wasn’t sure if I’d write this blog and it’s a bit of the easy way out in some ways.

I find the blog my release and more often then not this is also how family members find out too.

I’m going to be having surgery to remove a 3cm cyst with wavy lines removed. Its on my right ovary. It’s being rushed through due to family history. The wavy lines apparently mean it might not be a normal cyst.

I am not sure what to feel about it. It explains no periods since february 2009 when I fell pregnant with Red.

It explains my mood swings, hormones.

What if that doesn’t solve everything?
What if I’m infertile afterwards? Is that why my periods stopped?

I have Gav and Red. They are my world. And although this coming up is all a bit weird that’s actually all that matters.

Chelle

Manic Mama of 2, wife of shouty singer Gav, blog writer, stationery obsessive, bed jumper, Brighton based social media consultant and semi-pro writer

9 Comments

  1. Debbie
    November 12, 2011 / 7:57 pm

    I am sorry that you have learned of an unhealthy situation. I pray that the surgery will be quick and efficient and that the recovery from the procedure will be swift and complete. May whatever you have been experiencing and suffering be addressed with the removal of the cyst.

    Peace, blessings and healing be yours.

  2. kath v
    November 12, 2011 / 8:02 pm

    blimey thats big serious news, fingers crossed for everything. Take care lovely xx

  3. November 12, 2011 / 8:05 pm

    It’s ok. It’s all ok. What will be will be and we’ll all be there together, holding hands, working it out, drinking copious amounts of wine and eating cake together. If you are infertile afterwards and want to grow your family you can foster, or adopt. It’s the waiting that’s not good, isn’t it?

    And you are right, Gav and Fizz are all that matters x

  4. Eve Bell
    November 12, 2011 / 8:46 pm

    Wavy or not Chelle…you have a team probably with Fizz as our team leader, behind you every step of the way. Throw yourself into doing what you best to pass the waiting…you are brilliant but you already know I think that already.

    xxx

  5. November 12, 2011 / 9:15 pm

    Oh Chelle, hope it all goes well, and you know there’ll be plenty of people around to support you x x

  6. November 12, 2011 / 9:50 pm

    Big hugs Chelle. Please shout if there’s anything I can do for you 🙁

  7. November 12, 2011 / 10:40 pm

    Sorry to hear your news, I hope everything goes well. I’m sending huge hugs and positive thoughts. Just try to focus on the amazing family you have and not what might or might not be – that’s easier said than done Im sure. Much love to you all. xxx

  8. Anne G-T
    November 13, 2011 / 12:10 am

    Oh my gosh, what a lot to think about! I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this Chelle. Sending you big big hugs. xxx

  9. November 14, 2011 / 9:41 pm

    Oh Chelle, I’ve only just read this. It goes without saying our thoughts are with you, and I shall be giving you a BIG hug when I see you. As Eve has said – you have a huge amount of support behind you, and you know you can call any one of us at any time.

    Don’t dwell on what it might mean in the future – focus on the now – you’re on the cusp of a very exciting time for your businesses and your family. You’ve proved that if you put your mind to it anything is possible – no matter what adversities come your way.

    Much love xxx

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